I have had the honor of working in the field of adoption for 17 years. Ok, that makes me feel old! Anyway, I have learned so much and feel the best teachers are adoptive families, birth families, and adoptees. One family has shared a poem with me that was written by their daughter. It is written from the sibling of the adoptee, sharing her experience as her parents were in the process of adopting her little sister. Read the rest of this entry »
When facing an unexpected pregnancy, you might get a lot of advice on parenting or suggestions of looking at adoption. But where can you go to get unbiased help? Contact LSS because LSS pregnancy counseling is FREE, you don’t have to choose adoption, and outreach services are available throughout South Dakota. Read the rest of this entry »
I mentioned in my previous blog that I had ordered an Ancestry DNA test and would give an update and comparison once I had my results. Well the results are in, and as “luck” would have it, I’m still Irish! Ancestry did the percentages a little differently, but basically gave me the same ethnicity estimate as 23andme had reported. However, not to be outdone, within the same week, 23andme released a new and more specific breakdown of their ancestry report, which gave a higher indication of Irish rather than general “British and Irish,” and more Norwegian than just general “Scandinavian.” Skol!
So here’s my comparison and recommendation: Read the rest of this entry »
There is a new method in which adoptees are finding birth family, and all you need to do is spit! I just heard that My Heritage is giving away 15,000 free DNA test kits to adoptees and birth family members who are searching. To qualify for a chance at a free test, you have to apply before April 30th, 2018 at https://www.dnaquest.org, otherwise, the cost of these mail-order DNA tests ranges from $69 – $200. Read the rest of this entry »
You just found out you’re pregnant, and it wasn’t something you were planning – so many thoughts, emotions, and decisions to make. Who do you turn to? And where do you start? You’ve heard that LSS does adoptions (and has for nearly a century in South Dakota), but you’re not sure adoption is what you want to do. So why should you contact LSS anyway? 1. LSS pregnancy counseling is FREE, 2. You don’t have to choose adoption, and 3. Outreach is available throughout South Dakota. Free sounds like a good place to start! Read the rest of this entry »
As I pondered writing a blog that could address both Adoption Awareness Month AND Thanksgiving, I wasn’t sure where to start, until I was talking to a friend about the latest episode of the TV series, This is Us, and she asked me, “How old were you when you were first told you were adopted?” Wow! First, the answer is that I don’t remember, I just always knew. Second, I am so very thankful that I don’t remember! Read the rest of this entry »
Are you interested in adoption or foster care? November is recognized as National Adoption Month, and local agencies are sponsoring an Adoption and Foster Care Awareness event on November 2, 2017, at the Rapid City Dahl Arts Center, located at 713 7th Street, Rapid City, South Dakota. Read the rest of this entry »